Not GayA different look at heterosexuality in the twenty first century A straight white girl can kiss a girl, like it, and still call herself straighther boyfriend may even encourage her. But can straight white guys experience the same easy sexual fluidity, or would kissing a guy just mean that they are really gay? Not Gay thrusts deep into a world where straight guy on guy action is not a myth but a reality: theres fraternity and military hazing rituals,